Well, 2017 so far…

Hello everyone!

As you may see, I’m not great at updating sites. If you follow me on twitter Araneae twitter you will get all my updates, and all photos. Eventually everything else gets updated.

So what has 2017 had so far. Well, I worked with some wonderful people. Mark Page as usual we create some amazing work, get on his Patreon and get exclusive awesome images he’s never released!

I had a few personal and family things. My Grandmother turned 100 in February and received her telegram from the Queen. The next day my Mother broke her leg quite severely.  

In April my Father was taken ill and was rushed to hospital where, after 3 weeks of tests, he was diagnosed with terminal cancer and a very short time to live. I then broke my leg late April, stopping my wrestling and personal training. On May 6th my Dad passed away surrounded by family.  This has been a hard time for us all, turning our worlds upside down and making us feel so lost. What my Father taught us is that we are a family of strong women and whilst he isn’t around anymore, the lessons we learned, we carry on with our heads high.

There will be a return to wrestling and training. My broken leg is an injury which I thought would heal quicker than it has. I’m still on two crutches and undergoing extensive physiotherapy to recover the muscle and flexibility.  I have every intention of getting back to doing everything I love as soon as physically possible.  Several Photoshoots are set up.  And I need to plan my calendar, so if you have an idea of something you want to see in 2018, let me know. I love inspiration. 

I got a puppy.  I spent a long time (3 years) without a dog in my house.  If you met Zak (my Mother’s Rottweiler cross Collie), you’ll know I have a love of large dogs.  Having one not in my house has left it quite empty. So as I went to microchip some puppies a couple of weeks ago, I fell in love with a little Siberian husky cross German Shepherd called Badger. 

He is a little terror, but will be coming with me to London and anywhere I can take him. He will also spend time with Kiwi at the Pub he manages as the ‘pub dog’. 

Prepare for Badger!

So, a rough beginning of the year, and a lot of heartache for me and my family. We continue as best we can.  Thank you all for your love and support. Your continual beautiful messages and little gifts really mean so much to me.

Love you all 

Ari

Review of brutal session with Inferno and Jade

Sent lovingly to my inbox, today I received a wonderful review from ‘Competitive Wrestler’ on his double session with the glorious Jade 

We are available for Double trouble sessions 😉.

2-v-1 Session Review, Inferno & Jade vs Me

If you want the best 2-v-1 session ever, you should book Inferno & Jade. As “besties” (that’s what they call each other) they work so well together!
So friendly and fun to talk to before, and after, the session. And so good at taking on sadistic bitch personas during the session. It’s a such rare skill to be able to play roles so realistically without a hint of awkwardness. It’s the second time Inferno has impressed me with her role-playing ability – and, it was my first time seeing Jade, but she was just as impressive.

Jade was the slightly more ruthless of the two throughout and when I mentioned this afterwards, Inferno told me that they had agreed amongst themselves to do a good cop/bad cop thing with Jade as the bad cop. It felt more like Inferno was the bad cop (she did nothing to help me and inflicted plenty of suffering on me) but Jade was the insane psycho bitch nut-job cop!
The session plan was that we would begin with some wrestling and then it was up to them as to where they would take it.
I greeted the girls by giving Inferno a box of chocolates and giving Jade a single chocolate. This prompted my first glimpse of insane psycho bitch nut-job cop Jade as, before I knew it, she had sprang up off the mats and delivered a clean smack across my face. She immediately followed up with a barrage of punches to my body. Her athleticism took me by surprise (so fast and strong) and I remember thinking to myself ‘Jade is an absolute gem (I already knew Inferno was a gem). This is going to be a memorable session’ – and I was right. Jade then stopped punching me and told me, in a serious and believable tone, that I would pay for this later.

We did 10 minutes of 1-v-1 wrestling which finished 16-0 to the girls, eight submissions each. They were subbing in-and-out after each submission, staying fresh, while I was getting more and more worn out. They are such fun girls to wrestle, so comfortable in one another’s company. They seemed to be having a great time imitating the rhythm of my breathing/panting. I did find this humiliating – two beautiful girls having such a good time laughing and joking as they tapped me out at will.
Inferno then put me in a RNC, facedown on the mats, and I saw Jade pick up some ropes. I started to panic as, from what Jade had been saying, I feared she was going to put me through hell once she had me tied up. The idea came to me to ask for some 2-v-1 wrestling, simply to delay the ropes from coming out. I was saying, as loud as I could, which wasn’t that loud as was hard to talk in Inferno’s RNC, “please, please – can we do some 2-v-1 before you tie me up?”. Inferno kept the choke on and Jade leaned her face down to mine and said “make us an offer”. I whispered, as I could now barely breathe, “can we do 10 minutes of 2-v-1… £2 each per submission?”. They both laughed and said “£2!”. I thought they were going to refuse my offer but, after whispering that it was all I could afford, they agreed. I was delighted as it meant the torture had been delayed by at least 10 minutes. They won 25-0 over the 10 minutes.

I was now completely worn out and the last thing I wanted was to be tied up and tortured. I pleaded with the girls to let me wrestle some more. My pleas were completely genuine but I had no way of conveying this to them. All I had was words and they weren’t taking my words seriously. I resisted the tie-up for as long as I could – but it still took them only 2-3 minutes to subdue me. I remember the authority/anger in their voices as I was resisting. At this stage, I was terrified. I knew I was destined for hell as soon as the ropes went on. Looking back this whole predicament is soooo hot to me. There was literally nothing I could do to prevent these girls from tying me up and once tied up I was completely at their mercy. And the fact that I would now be too scared to re-book an identical session makes it even hotter.

To be honest, now tied up, a lot of the rest of the session is a blur. I do remember Jade turning merciless. Punching me with absolutely no regard for my pleas. I could feel myself shaking with fear. I have a new respect for the guys that go for these extreme torture sessions. This was my first and I’m pretty sure my last. To avoid a gag, I kept telling them that I have asthma (I don’t) and it worked. I also kept telling them that I had a taxi booked for 5pm (I didn’t) to get the to finish up early (or at least not go into over-time). They are aware of these tricks/lies now so, I know if they get another chance, they’ll up the intensity even more which I simply would not be able for. I basically can’t re-book a torture session with Inferno & Jade ever again – but, if any of you are less cowardly than me, I urge you to give them a go.

I know my shirt was ripped off me and I was blindfolded so I couldn’t tell who was doing what to me – or even what was being done to me. I remember being scratched and clawed. I remember needles being stuck through my skin and hot wax being dripped on me. It was all absolute hell. But, to be honest, the most hellish part of it all was the punches. I am now, one week later, still sore all over and covered in bruises. At one point Jade said “I want to give him a dead-arm”. I was tied up on my back and couldn’t move. She must have punched my arm abut 100 times in the space of a minute. I thought it would never end. She has endless energy.
I’m finding it hard to do the torture justice in words. It was literally the worst thing I have ever been through in my life. You feel so powerless. I actually dare any ‘regular session wrestling client’ to branch out and give it a go. If you’re at all like me, you’ll never forget it.
Before they released me Jade put her hand tight to my throat, pulled up my blindfold and made me apologise for my pre-session chat banter and my one chocolate gift. I have never been so at the mercy of anyone before. I’d have done and said anything to speed up my release. I apologised and praised her relentlessly.

When they finally released me I felt like hugging them both (I didn’t though as I was covered in blood!) and that love/affection for them has remained since. I’m looking forward to the next time I see them, which will be for a much softer/less extreme session type!

Competitive Wrestler

2016 episode

2016 is over.

So it’s the end of the year. It’s been an interesting year. Court, travel, wrestling, some modelling, my calendar…

I won’t spout on about all the changes I’m going to make or resolutions.  I believe people should always be evolving, no matter the time of year.  I’m getting my modelling mojo back thanks to some amazing people: Dave Boys, Mark Page, Annie Moya, John Rae, Jon Rees, Kerry Stott, JessicaWabbit. More photographers, models and riggers who have supported me and I couldn’t be more grateful.

New friends have popped up and it’s been wonderful. Some have left and that’s their perogative, but that is life.   

Wrestling has been amazing and will only improve. I love my clients. I know many people assume that session wrestlers are there just for the money. But in truth,  it is one of the most intimate things you can do with another person; discuss what they really want in order to have a great time, aim to deliver exactly that and more,  and getting on the mats in gym shorts and sports bra (or bikini) and roll around for an hour or more.  I adore meeting new people, seeing what makes them tick, and hopefully providing everything they could want. Money aside,  I wouldn’t train if I didn’t love what I do.  Things can only get better.  If you are one of my clients, thank you so much for a brilliant year. As always, I welcome feedback and reviews so if you would like to, mail me, and HAPPY NEW YEAR!

2017 has more travel, more wrestling,  plenty of modelling and LOADS more latex. There will be plenty to keep an eye on as I have two more websites being redone!

To a 2017 filled with love, light and laughter 

Assault and conviction.


 

In July 2014 I was assaulted by Patrick Hume, a photographer based in Camberley. We had a shoot arranged on the 11th, I checked references and they were good, all positive. Our first shoot went well. We arranged to shoot again at my home later in the month. On the 29th he arrived, set up and we began shooting. Nothing was unusual. We shot to nude in my living room. This was fine. Then the bedroom set was bondage based. I’ve shot thousands of times in bondage scenarios. Nothing was different. Except when I was bound and gagged he put his finger and props inside me.
I stated several times beforehand when asked if I do insertions that I do not. This was via text and email. I was shocked, panicked and unable to move or do anything but attempt to portray my upset and dismay through the ballgag in my mouth. He apologized for ‘getting fresh’ with me, and soon after the shoot, he packed up and left my home, my new home I’d moved into earlier that month. Without hesitation I called the police and immediately reported him. This behaviour, his complete abuse of power and situation is not acceptable. I didn’t even think when dialing the police, I just did. He sexually assaulted me and I reported this crime.
The past nearly two years have been hell. Some of the images he took of me whilst he was assaulting me were found online for people to purchase. A few photographers contacted me to ask if they could shoot me to the levels they saw in these images of assault. The arrangement of photoshoots with Patrick Hume was through Purpleport, who, thankfully, have been exceptional in their support and continual work with the police to provide information and assistance. Other modelling websites when I contacted them to make aware that they had a photographer who assaulted a model were not helpful in the slightest.
I have been transparent to the police, providing everything asked for including video and written recordings of my statement, an invasive physical, surrender of my mobile to recover all messages and emails and my medical information. The CSI came and dusted my home for prints, took my clothing and the money I was paid that day. I don’t want anything back.

I was given an ISVA (independant sexual violence agent) who has been with me throughout the entire process, and who I could not have sat in court without. She has been my dictionary, the go – between to the police, the ear and shoulder to cry on and the organising factor who I couldn’t have managed court proceedings had she not have been there. She guided me to the witness room today (29th april) whilst I was having a panic attack as I saw Hume in the lobby beforehand. She held my hand as his four year sentence was read, as the Judge explained everything that happened the day of the assault. Patrick Hume has been assessed as being a medium risk to women.

This has been the hardest time in my life. My home has been ruined and turned into a constant nightmare where this happened. My modelling career and professional name marred as I had to cancel shoots short notice afterwards as I couldn’t face meeting new photographers. My studies took a hit as my 80% average dropped to 28 and I barely scraped a pass in my exams.

Nothing can take away what I’ve been through. My levels are clearly stated and were so at the time. Hume showed no remorse through the whole case, did not believe he had done anything wrong. Yet three guilty verdicts of assault by penetration, found by 12 peers saw that clearly he did. Four years per charge, served concurrently and destruction of the criminal data has been given as a punishment. Nothing will ever seem enough, and I have to live with this reminder daily, and the journey ahead is long.

I thank everyone who has been by my side; my partner who lost his job because his boss didn’t understand how he needed to be with me that evening I had to be examined, the girls who had just come through a court case from another photographer and were helping me understand the process, everyone who turned up to sentencing to support me in reading out my impact statement infront of the photographer and everyone who could not, my ISVA lady and DC Robert cross who has been my points of contact throughout. You have all supported me through something I didn’t feel I could come out of the other end.
Regardless of your levels, a photographer should NEVER touch you unless you give them permission to. Even then it has to be specific. No means no. Do not suffer in silence if this has happened to you. You shouldn’t have to put up with it, and convictions do happen. You WILL have support, you will be looked after. You will always have someone to talk to about what happened and what is happening throughout the whole process. You will never go through it alone.
I will answer questions and I hope that in sharing my story I can raise awareness and possibly encourage others to come forward. This shouldn’t have happened. I didn’t think it would ever happen to me. I’m not a novice model, I check references and I am mindful with whom I work. But from now on, written references from other models aren’t enough. I don’t know if I will ever return to modelling fully, but I hope that one day I can.

 

Thank you for reading.

Modelling!

Ladies and Gentlemen. Changes are coming!

As you’re probably aware,  I’ve been keeping a low profile for the past 20ish months. There are reasons behind this,  which I will make apparent in a few weeks with another blog. I have been shooting with a very select few top photographers throughout, keeping the artistic juices flowing,

In the mean time, I’m excited to get back into working with you lovely people.

My calendar shooting of course has continued; I hate to disappoint you all, and if you’re still looking for one, there are a couple still available.

I have LOADS of images to share with you all. Bear with me, my hdd is dying and the images are safe, but I have limited capabilities to upload.

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I’ll keep you updated.

Enjoy,  share and keep smiling.

Love Ari

Shooting, wrestling, filming and the knee!

Hello all!

So what have I been up to? Last week I sat on a throne in the woods and played with swords for a gorgeous ‘Dark Tarot’ theme. Dressed in beautiful rich velvet bell sleeved dresses and playing around with masks in the middle of the woods on a cute handcrafted wooden throne was a well needed break from the norm. I am sure the photographer will share the images at some point.

I’m planning next year’s calendar already.  I’ve had a lot of support from people telling me that this year’s was the best so far.  It’s hard to top that!  Shall I stick with the same photographer as last year, (Andy is a great photographer and you all seem to enjoy this calendar), or

I am slowly getting back into wrestling.  There is some pain still present (often a lot)  but avoiding standing and kneeling on that one knee isn’t too bad.  Sessions are still in the light, fantasy, roleplay, or specific (smothers, pins, domination, beatdown etc) genres.  The event in Belgium sadly got cancelled as a few more girls dropped out.

Last week I also met up with a producer in London looking to make a mini series based around female wrestlers.  I am casting 6 women for this role, see GooeyGrapplingGirls  for more details on that 😀

As I am not currently playing for my team this season, and I missed GB trials due to my knee,  I’ve decided to try and be useful and be there for the boys.  I have taken to the other side of the camera, and here is one of the images I’m proud of  from Sunday’s game.

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That seems to be about it for now I think 😀

 

Knee update and such!

Bonjour!

Sadly, I’ve had to cancel my tour to Brussels.  Two physiotherapists have been working on my knee and it is slowly dawning on me that this isn’t a sprained ankle or a broken finger.  My knee injury is quite a serious injury which is something I never thought I’d get and also one of my biggest fears.  Competitive wrestling and martial arts for now will have to sit on the back burner whilst I recover.  One of my Physiotherapists is used to fixing up soldiers so we have a good routine for healing coming along.   I will be able to return to semi competitive session wrestling in Mid April.

I shot some commercial swimming images on Friday 13th, the images should be floating around somewhere.  I shall endeavour to locate them and post them up ASAP.

Any good little boys and girls feel like cheering up your Domina, feel free to take a gander at my wishlist… Ari’s Wishlist

Modelling and Domination work is available and I’m still taking bookings for Munich in May at BoundCon.  I have a beautiful junior Suite in a four star hotel for four days that simply cannot go to waste!

For more information please message me via the Contact Page

Ciao

Ari

 

General Blog :)

Well hasn’t this ben an eventful year so far!   I plan on making blog posts more regularly than once every three months so bear with me on this.

I had a lot of shoots lined up, but due to an injury on February 14th I had to postpone and cancel.

I was in an American Football tournament, the first one of the Women’s season, and I tackled someone whereby their shoulder hit my knee at speed and dislocated the patella, tore the MCL and destroyed a few bits of muscle around the ligaments.  Needless to say this has been a very painful experience.

I’m on the mend currently.  Physiotherapy today was awkward and tear jerking and a complete recovery timeline is uncertain, so I’m hoping I’ll be able to play in the Men’s league this year and still have my chances for the GB Women’s team, although that may be wishful thinking at this stage.

Belgium Wrestling event

I was lucky enough to be invited to an event hosted by none other than the infamous Anne Hurricane on the 11th of April.  Some amazing wrestlers will be attending and I am really looking forward to it.  For more information please message me via the contact page.

I have nothing interesting to really talk about currently.  So I shall heal up and get reorganised.

Ari

 

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